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1st August 2006, 9:26
You will experience the highest, most efficient standard of service in the area.
The experience of the funeral director’s sympathetic ear is all the most valuable because we are dealing with the practicalities of the funeral. Our Funeral Directors will listen to you, the bereaved, as you decide what sort of funeral you want. We will inform you about the type of funerals available, the types of services, the forms to be filled in and the grants available. As a matter of course we are kept up to date with any changes that may occur in social security regulations relating to funeral grants and payments.
Our experience and expertise extends beyond that required on a day to day basis. We are sympathetic towards different ethnic and religious groups. Our Funeral Directors are aware of the special needs involved in supporting those who have suffered a sudden death.
Our Funeral Directors are trained and qualified to act as a professional and confident advisor who ensures that arrangements are carried out with efficiency and the dignity that this most difficult occasion demands.
On a practical side, we ensure that all the necessary liaisons and deadlines are met and all the paperwork is completed and handed in at the right place at the right time. A full written estimate detailing the costs will be given with every funeral arranged. This shows the Funeral Directors charges and details of the fees paid on behalf of the family.
Much of this work that the funeral director does is discreet and is not always readily apparent what duties are carried out. These include:- service the funeral arrangements themselves can be made at anytime just by contacting us. We can call and see you or you may visit our funeral home. In selecting ourselves as your Funeral Director, we will ensure that each and every detail is discussed with you thoroughly to ensure your wishes and those of the deceased are correctly carried out.
On the compliance of cremation and doctors forms the certificates are taken to the relevant authorities along with other legal documents. All documentation and discussion about the funeral will be retained for future reference by the family and ourselves.
All information is kept in absolute confidence
No one knows when a death will occur, or when you will suffer the loss of a loved one. Death can occur at anytime and anywhere. The Funeral Director will be responsible for overall supervision of the funeral itself and will always be available from the time of death, to the ceremony and afterwards for help, support, guidance and comfort. Once we have taken your instructions and have arranged at a given time on a given day, we will carry it out, regardless of circumstances all arrangements made for the funeral are confirmed in writing, so that the details may be checked and agreed. The removal of the deceased from the place of death to our funeral home is a service, providing we have the necessary authority. The arrangement and payment of fees, and disbursements relating to the funeral include; crematorium and cemetery fees, parochial fees, Press announcements, Floral Tributes, Hymn sheets, attendance cards, catering arrangements either at home, our funeral home or an external venue, plus any other detail requested by the relatives of the deceased. Where necessary we provide limousines to follow the hearse. All staff will be attired in smart appropriate dress and shall ensure professional dignified attendance and supervision throughout the funeral. If you require any help or advice at anytime, please contact us.
As your Funeral Director, we are here to advise you in making all those arrangements which meet your personal needs and desires. Please remember that we are here to help you in whatever way we can, to help you cope and adjust to your bereavement. Providing you with a personal 24 hour, 365 day a year service is just the start. Remeber, if you require help at any time during this period, all you need to do is call.
The funeral ceremony is the culmination of the work that has taken place since the death occurred.
Although only one of the many functions of the Funeral Director, to many people, the sight of the funeral cortege is probably the one most associated with funeral service. It is significant to note that the word is derived from the Latin “funeralis” meaning a torchlight procession.
Funeral Directors will be in attendance throughout the proceedings, to ensure the smooth running of events. They will take on the role of master of ceremonies, carrying out the task of guiding, directing and overseeing the funeral.
As well as the Funeral Director, four members of staff will also be present. These pallbearers will be attired in smart appropriate dress and will ensure professional dignified attendance and supervision throughout the funeral.
If you or any member of your family is unsure of what to do, tell your Funeral Director. This is what they are here for, to help and guide people through one of the hardest days of your life.
In all aspects of the funeral arrangements our staff will point out our procedures and legal requirements
Whilst arranging the funeral, we will advise on costs and charges to be incurred, culminating in a full written estimate which will be given to the person responsible for the arrangements before the day of the funeral.
Our account itself is divided into three separate parts, our charges, the disbursements and the coffin or casket.
Our charges include professional fees and overhead costs, which include the provision of a 24 hour a day call rota, our professional services in making the funeral arrangements and arranging documentation and necessary personal attendance's, the conveyance of the deceased to our private rest rooms and the use of the same until the day of the funeral.
Disbursements are essentially fees that we pay out on behalf of the family. These include Doctors fees, Crematoria/Cemetery fees, Parochial fees, Newspaper Announcements, Printing and Catering.
Our written estimate will detail the approximate cost of any disbursements. However, as we have no direct control over these charges, they could be slight variations from the estimate.
Coffin or casket charges are for the coffin/casket you choose including the gown and lining etc.
The account can be paid for by cash, cheque or credit card.
Make sure all windows and doors are locked and secure, if there are cat/door flaps make sure they are secured. In winter leave some heating on, as this will prevent any pipes from freezing. Make sure that the fridge door is left ajar and all perishable foods are disposed of. Household plants may need to be tendered to. It may be advisable to let a neighbour have a key to remove any free newspapers and post to stop them building up. Blinds or curtains may be adjusted every couple of days, hence giving an appearance of the house being occupied. Time clocks can be purchased from most hardware stores, which time a lamp or light to turn on and off at certain times.
In certain circumstances the next-of-kin can receive help with the cost of the funeral from the Social Fund. (Claims must be within three months of death.)
Ask Your Funeral director for further information on Death Benefits
How to Register a Death
In England and Wales, a death must be registered by the Registrar of Births and Deaths for the area in which the death occurred. If you are unsure whether or not you have authority to register the death, we will advise you.
The death must be registered within five days.
When you go to the registrar
Things to take with you:
The Registrar requires the following Details:
If the deceased was a married woman:
From the Informant:
The Registrar will give you:
The Registrar Will SELL You Copies of the Death Certificate
You will need these for:
In our opinion there is no such thing as a normal funeral. Each and every funeral is individual to the family concerned. It is up to that family to pay their last respects and say their last farewell in the manner that is most suitable for them.
The following information is there to help answer questions that we are most often asked about the funeral and services associated with it :-
A. When a funeral is cremation, two doctors MUST attend and certify death. The FIRST doctor must be the doctor who attended the deceased during his/hers last illness. The duty of the SECOND doctor is essentially one of confirmation. This doctor must not be related to the first doctor either through family or practice. For this service, each doctor makes a separate charge, which we, the Funeral Directors usually pay on behalf of the deceased's family.
A. In each limousine there is room for six people in the rear compartment and room for one in the front with the chauffeur.
A. Yes, although we would ask that you contact us as soon as possible to ensure that it is safe to do so.
A. Yes, Our Funeral Home is open and available to you at anytime. If you wish to visit our private chapel, please ring and inform us when you would like to come and we will be pleased to arrange for a member of our staff to meet you.
A. Yes, we can bring the deceased home either on the evening before the service or on the morning of the service, so the deceased can leave from home
A. Yes, if you have a special request or would like a particular piece of music playing either as you walk into or out of the Crematorium Chapel, please let the Funeral Director know as soon as possible. Please note that only original recordings are allowed because of copyright laws.
A. Yes, if donations to charity are requested in lieu of flowers, we will accept and list donations on your behalf and forward them to the charity of your choice
A. No. After the service has ended, the coffin does not move until all the relatives and friends have left the Crematorium Chapel. At some Crematoria there are curtains that close at the head of the coffin, but this is only done at the request of the relatives.
No. There are strict laws regarding cremation. Nothing may be removed from the coffin before cremation without the permission of the Home Office.
A. Yes the identity of the coffin name plate is checked by the Crematorium Attendant before it is placed in the cremation chamber. This only holds one coffin or casket at a time and again there are rules that must be abided by.
A. Yes. Once the cremation has taken place, the cremated remains are removed and left to cool before being placed in an urn. This urn is clearly identified as to whose remains they are.
If you would like to discuss any of the above alternatives, please contact us and we will be pleased to help you.
A. list of mourners who attended the funeral can be made, and written in a memorial book.
A. if you require catering after the funeral you can make your own arrangements or contact us to make a booking at a hotel or restaurant. Alternatively we can provide catering and staff at your home or in our lounge.
A. The funeral account is sent to the person responsible for the arrangements or the solicitor, when necessary, about a week after the funeral. The account can be paid for by cash, cheque or credit card.
A. If the grave is ‘earth’ rather than 'bricked' then the grave will take six months or more before the ground is firm enough to place the weight of the headstone. If the grave is ‘bricked’ inside, then it does not take as long.
For further advice please contact your Funeral Director, who will be pleased to advise you.
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